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Many people are now only children. Many people have experienced the kind of loneliness without brothers and sisters when they were young. When they saw other people’s good brothers and good sisters, they couldn’t help but sigh “Mom owes me a brother” or “I Mom owes me a sister." Many people have a vision of giving birth to a second child. On the one hand, they make up for the regrets of childhood. On the other hand, they feel that the two children are happy.
l The age difference between the two children is too large
1. Brothers and sisters have generation gaps
If the age is too big, not only will the two children have a generation gap, but the older children will be very embarrassed. Because the older children enter high school or university, the parents feel that the child has to leave, so the second child, the boss, is lifted or When you lead your own sister or younger brother, you will most likely be mistaken for your own child, causing jokes of others, and explaining to others that the embarrassing situation will cause trouble for the older children.
2, two children get along with less time, feelings thin
Although older children like children very much, they are generally rare for a while, accidentally crying, and they will not take care of children as parents think, and they usually don’t care. There is very little time to really get along with each other.
For Bao Ma, the age of Sheng Erbao can be more than 35 years old, which is a high-age maternal. The risk of birth is not high, and the risk of complications may be higher. Not conducive to the recovery of the body.
l The age difference of the second child is too small
1, busy can not be handed overThe pieces are not very good, a child is not energetic enough, and the second treasure needs more precious troubles.
2. The contradiction between children is gradually growing